In society, we’re always looking for ways to improve ourselves. For many of us, that includes appearance. Shallow or not, we all want to look our best. When we look our best, we feel our best.
Fix your posture.
Having clothes that fit correctly. They can be dirt fucking cheap, but if they fit nicely you’ll look spiffy and put together.
Hygiene is key. Brush your teeth, use deodorant, shower regularly. Does wonders.
Use conditioner, take your scent into consideration, and keep your fingernails tidy.
On a superficial level, wearing a colour that flatters you can work wonders instantly, whether that’s a colour that looks nice with your skin tone, brings out your eyes or complements your hair, it can make a noticeable difference. It doesn’t have to be a whole outfit, it could be a scarf/tie, pair of earrings, a pocket square, a lipstick. Also, having clean , ironed clothes and clipping your nails can go a long way.
On a fundamental level, kindness is very attractive.
I’ve found that treating everyone like a buddy is a good tactic. I’m not super attractive and I’m fat, which puts a lot of people off, but I make an effort to always say hi to people and try to make them laugh. I find a good sense of humor a huge measure of a person’s attractiveness.
Talk about things you are passionate about, within reason of course. It is always appealing to people when you are sincere and excited during a conversation.
SLEEP! Get your 8 hours (or whatever is natural too you), inadequate sleep is proven to make you less attractive (and i believe oversleep as well).
Own up to your mistakes. Don’t be that person who can never admit they’re wrong.
Confidence and walk with purpose.